Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Ideal gift giving for this Christmas

Holiday gift giving is now a difficult task. The past easier days of giving a scarf or mittens or a sled are over. Everyone would like technology gadgets. You can't give household things because people already have them or they are more fussy about kitchen, household, and particular items that they want specifically. The issue is that now with internet and huge stores and even much larger varieties of merchandise, we each can choose from a multitude and surplus of possibilities for each item. Plus many people go out and buy those items themselves. I am in a genuine problem of what to get people this year. christmas tea pot gift basketLet me give you some examples. My mom wants a specific set of serving dishes and she already obtained it yesterday in an early Black Friday special. My nephews now have more electronic games than they can even play and my brother gets them the newest one immediately when it comes out. My sister wanted top quality luggage and told me yesterday at Thanksgiving dinner that she found one online and has already ordered it for herself. My dad was up early this morn to buy new power tools for us for Christmas and I just know that he got himself one of each too. The last few years I asked people at Thanksgiving for listings and that truly helped me. Yesterday at Thanksgiving meal no one was able to come up with a list of stuff. This has been a rising situation over the years. I don't have as much time to shop and I detest to fight the crowds. My wife and I decided to go to a theme holidays and buy everybody something by the motif of the year. One year while at a neighborhood book shop we started buying books and then went to a major box book store to pick up not only books but calendars and games and they even packaged a lot of them for us. It turned out to be quite pricey but it did work. The next year we had been so busy that we just went to the grocery store and bought gift cards for everyone. That was totally easy but it was pretty detached and we didn't have time or want to take the effort to wrap them, so we ended up appearing cheap when we handed people just an envelope. Plus it wasn't cheap in the long run and the thank you letters turned out that people got our gift cards and amounts mixed up with other people's gifts. They liked them and could use them but we noticed that we forgot to use our gift cards or lost them which was a absolute waste of money. In fact it was published that stores like gift cards because so many people never use them or find them way beyond the expiration date or lose them. The next year we customized it a bit more and bought food and restaurant coupons we thought each person would appreciate. It was okay. Yesterday my wife and I were complaining about the fact that gift giving has basically become a gift card exchange and lost its whole appeal and purpose. We lost for the past days of taking time to shake and open packages or people excited about something they have been wanting realized in a gift. Those days have simply vanished. People go online and just buy what they really want. A lot of her family members are restructuring and do not need more things. When they need or want something they go buy exactly what they want and our gifts are either regifted or go to Salvation Army. This year we want to make an impact. Quite honestly we are usually doing our shopping at the last minute. We went online last night and decided we are going to either order or go out and battle the crowds today and do our shopping. This year we want our gift to be the first one people get. So for the friends and colleagues and extended family we won't see, we found a website and nearby company right here in Denver called Baskets by Rita. There are all kinds of holiday baskets to send. We ordered online those baskets to be sent as soon as they can. Will they ever be stunned. Not only will ours be the first one there, but the packaged baskets are wrapped so nicely with holiday ribbons that will probably be put on exhibit in their house as a decoration. It was so easy. We are done and don't have to panic about those gifts. Then we talked about going to our relatives houses for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and we want to take the gifts ourselves so we didn't order baskets to be sent to their houses. Then we had a terrific idea. Why not order those gift baskets and have them sent to our house and then we will have them to take. We are thrilled because we can walk in with a gift that is WOW and that is not the usual mail order basket from the major companies. The baskets we are ordering today for family members are bundled with gourmet food items and that is just fine. Plus we decided that is one of the only things people don't buy for themselves. My mom just goes out and buys fresh flowers when she wants them. But none of us order a gift basket for ourselves. Perfect. We are placing the order today and guess what? We can now unwind. We will have sent and gotten the gift baskets even before December l. That buys us not only gifts but the whole freedom of not scrambling. The gift baskets to take Dec. 24 and Dec. 25 will be on display on the shelves in my home office ready to go. This year we will go to holiday parties and watch other people stress out while we are eating out, going to movies, holiday parties and relaxing. Not only is Baskets by Rita doing all the work of buying, wrapping, and sending the gifts, but it turned out to be cheaper than what we usually spend because we already paid for shipping, wrapping and bows and all the extra costs that creep up each year. Perfect. We are placing the order today and guess what? We can now relax. We will have sent and gotten the gift baskets even before December l. That buys us not only gifts but the whole freedom of not scrambling. The gift baskets to take Dec. 24 and Dec. 25 will be sitting on the shelves in my home office ready to go. This year we will go to holiday parties and watch other people stress out while we are eating out, going to movies, holiday parties and relaxing. Not only is Baskets by Rita doing all the work of buying, wrapping, and sending the gifts, but it turned out to be more affordable than what we usually spend because we already paid for shipping, wrapping and bows and all the extra costs that go up each year.

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